15 Sweet And Loving Things To Do For Your Boyfriend Any Time Of Year

There are certain things a guy will do to show his love to the woman in his life, like holding the door, bringing flowers, or taking her out to eat. But a woman also needs to do considerate things for her man. According to guys, being able to reciprocate interest and affection is an important characteristic of a high-quality woman. After all, a gentleman deserves a lady.

As women, however, how can we do this without taking on the man’s role? The answer is simple – be the girl. Be fun, be creative, and be thoughtful. Sometimes the most simple actions and gestures are the sweetest and most sincere of all. Here are 15 ideas of sweet, simple, and romantic things to do for your man, with all love languages covered.

1. A Handwritten Note

Write a simple note like “I love you” on a post-it and leave it somewhere where he’ll see it. There’s nothing as classically romantic as writing letters to each other. Another idea if you’re apart is to write a message that’s too long to send by text on a card, seal it with a kiss, and mail it to him. Imagine how happy he’ll be when he checks his mail.

2. Wear What He Likes

Does your boyfriend like a certain color on you, did he give you a pair of earrings, or do you have a dress he thinks you look amazing in? Pay attention to what outfits of yours he particularly likes, and wear some of his favorite items on purpose. Most guys don’t care too much about women’s fashion, but he’ll think it's sweet when you wear something specifically for him.

3. Go for a Long Walk with Him

Going for a long walk with just the two of you is a great way to spend quality time together. Hold hands, be outdoors, and catch up with each other. You can spontaneously pull him out on a neighborhood walk, or drive to a park for a change of scenery. Either way, asking him to go for a walk with you shows him that you enjoy his company and conversation. 

4. Give Him a Gift

When you go on a trip, bring him back a souvenir. This will show your man that you were thinking of him, even when you were away. In the meantime, notice what he likes or what he’s in need of. Does he love wearing baseball hats? Then get him another. If you have acquired many of his t-shirts over time, you could buy him a new one. Incorporate his specific interests to give your gifts a personal touch.

5. Treat Him

The next time you go to the grocery store, pick up his favorite treat. Or, if you're able to, you should bake something homemade for him. Whether it's sugar cookies, peanut butter cups, or pretzels, have his favorite snack ready to give him the next time you meet up. It's such a simple and sweet way to show him he’s on your mind.

6. Text at a Random Time

Text him something sweet for no particular reason at all. Tell him you love him, that you’re thinking of him, that you can’t wait to meet up. Tell him what he means to you. Whether a lighthearted impulse, or a profound insight, when you think of him throughout the day, let him know. Be spontaneous and be creative.

7. Listen

Once in a while, everyone just needs to be listened to. As your boyfriend, he wants to rely on you above everyone else for emotional support. Be someone he can count on to give him your full attention when something’s on his mind.

8. Compliment Him 

Deep down, everyone likes to be complimented if it's sincere, even a guy. If you feel compelled to compliment him about anything at all, don’t hesitate. What makes him a quality man, what do you love most about him? Tell him how great he looks. Also acknowledge his accomplishments, like acing a test or landing a job interview.

9. Humor

A sweet and simple thing you can always do to brighten his day is to make him laugh. Don’t be afraid to joke around with him or share a funny insight. Also, be sure to laugh at his jokes too, so that he knows his sense of humor is appreciated.

10. Show Interest in His Hobby 

His hobby may not be as fascinating to you as to him, but it’s a sweet gesture to want to learn more about it, whether it's sports, music, gaming, and beyond. You may end up enjoying it more than you think. Pay attention and ask questions about his hobby. Show interest and support him in his interests. 

11. Watch a Movie That He Likes

It's best when there’s a movie that both of you enjoy watching, but, once in a while, watch one that he likes but maybe you don’t think you will. Who knows, it may end up becoming a new favorite, as was the case for me. Trust his taste in movies, and you may be surprised.

12. Plan an Outdoor Activity

Guys love being active, especially in the outdoors. For a surprise he’s sure to love, plan a trip to a park or a lake and spend time biking, hiking, or boating with him. For a feminine girlie, these may not be your number one favorite activities, but doing them with the guy you love is sure to be a good time regardless.

13. Have a Deep Conversation

Learn more about each other on a deeper level. Put distractions aside and focus on building a quality intellectual connection through conversation. Here are some ideas for thought-provoking questions to get you started.

14. Do a Chore for Him

This one will always be appreciated, not only for the sacrifice but also out of practicality. If he’s had a busy week, allow him to relax by taking on one of his responsibilities, like washing the dishes, preparing dinner for him, or taking out the trash. Make sure it’s clear you’re doing it out of love, not because you think he’s incompetent.

15. Physical Touch 

Physical touch is one of the best parts of a romantic relationship. Show your love for each other and strengthen your bond by being close physically. Hug him when he doesn’t expect it, steal a kiss together, or drop what you’re doing to snuggle. 

Closing Thoughts

No matter his love language, you can brighten your man’s life with some of these ideas. Make him feel like the luckiest guy alive by being the girlfriend that he deserves. It’s so much fun to have sweet things done for us, but it's even better to do them for someone else. 

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