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Ask Evie: My Intuition Says My Boyfriend Is Cheating, But I Don’t Have Any Proof. Am I Just Being Insecure?

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By Evie3 min read
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READER’S QUESTION: "Call it women's intuition, but I have this horrible feeling like my boyfriend is cheating on me. I keep having recurring nightmares about discovering texts from another woman or, worse, finding them in bed together. The thing is, I don't have any solid proof. I even looked in his phone when he was sleeping one night (we share passwords), and although I only snooped for a few minutes because it felt like my heart was beating out of my chest, I didn't find anything in his texts or Instagram DMs. I'm sure he could be hiding it somewhere else, like in his photos, or if I checked his location when he's not with me to see if he's up to anything, but I feel like I've already gone too far without any proof.