Sex

This Painful Treatment Led To The Most Pleasurable Sex Of My Life

I’ve been shaved, waxed, and sugar waxed – trust me, the other methods don’t compare.

By Ivy Lipton7 min read
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Natalia, my aesthetician, greeted me with a warm smile and led me to a spotless room where soft, soothing music played over the speaker. As I settled onto the plush treatment table at Sugar Wax LA, Natalia covered me with a soft, warm blanket, leaving only the area she was working on exposed. The atmosphere was so calming, it almost felt like I was preparing for a luxurious spa treatment rather than hair removal. She explained that sugar waxing is an ancient method that uses a natural paste made of sugar, water, and lemon juice to remove hair. Unlike traditional waxing, sugar wax adheres only to the hair, not the skin, making it less painful and ideal for sensitive areas.

Disclaimer: This article is intended for readers 18 and older. It contains explicit adult content and is intended for educational purposes for married women only. Reader discretion is advised.

She began with my legs, applying a gentle antiseptic to cleanse the skin and remove any oils. Next, she opened a small jar of the sugar paste, which was warm to the touch but not hot like traditional wax. Natalia explained that the paste was made fresh in-house and was completely natural, free of chemicals or artificial ingredients. 

She took a small amount of the sugar paste and rolled it into a ball between her fingers. She then pressed it against my skin, smoothing it over the area in the opposite direction of hair growth. The warmth was comforting, and I could feel the paste gently adhering to the hairs. Unlike traditional wax, which is applied with a spatula and removed with strips, sugar wax is worked into the skin using the hands, allowing for greater precision and control.

Once the paste was spread evenly, Natalia swiftly flicked her wrist, pulling the paste off in the direction of hair growth. The sensation was a quick, sharp tug, but it was surprisingly bearable. The pain was fleeting, and as soon as the paste was removed, Natalia pressed her hand gently on the area to soothe the skin, reducing any lingering discomfort.

She repeated this process across both of my legs, applying and flicking away the paste with practiced ease. Each time the sugar was removed, my skin was left feeling incredibly soft, with no sticky residue. There was a slight redness, which Natalia assured me was normal and would subside quickly. Indeed, by the time she finished, the redness had already begun to fade, leaving behind smooth, flawless skin.

After finishing my legs, Natalia moved on to my bikini area for a full Luxury Brazilian. This was the main event I came for! She reassured me that sugar waxing was particularly effective for sensitive areas like the bikini line and the delicate skin on and around the vagina. I was ready. 

She began by applying a thin layer of talc to ensure the area was completely dry. Then, she took a fresh ball of sugar paste and carefully applied it to my bikini line, using the same method as before – pressing it against the skin and smoothing it over in the opposite direction of hair growth. This time, the sensation was painful, but bearable. I tried taking deep breaths to steady myself. Natalia then moved to the more intimate areas, including my vagina and bottom. She explained each step as she went, making sure I felt comfortable and informed. Then came the flick. I wanted to scream!  The pain was so intense, and she tried to comfort me. “Just keep going!” I urged, shutting my eyes. The paste was applied with gentle precision, but there was a sharper sting with each removal. I just kept focusing on the end result. 

When Natalia finished, she applied a soothing post-wax oil made from jojoba, argan, and rosehip. This not only calmed any irritation but also left my skin feeling luxuriously soft and moisturized. She gave me a moment to breathe and admire her handiwork, offering a mirror so I could see the results for myself. 

My jaw dropped! 

My skin was flawless – velvety smooth with only the slightest hint of redness, which quickly faded. There was no irritation, just a perfectly polished surface that felt as amazing as it looked. As I ran my fingers over my legs and lips of my vagina, I couldn’t help but say “wow!” and laugh with excitement. You truly aren’t prepared for how soft it makes your skin. 

Benefits of Sugar Waxing

Before I get to the big reveal, let me share some of the incredible benefits of sugar waxing that I experienced: 

  1. Less Painful (in Theory): Sugar wax adheres only to the hair, not the skin, which is supposed to make the removal process less painful compared to traditional waxing. This was not my experience, but Natalia explained everyone is different and many find it much more bearable. 

  2. Natural Ingredients: The sugar paste is made from simple, 100% natural ingredients: sugar, water, and lemon juice, making it a safer option for those with sensitive skin or allergies to synthetic chemicals found in traditional waxes.

  3. Gentle on the Skin: Because it doesn't stick to the skin, sugar waxing is less likely to cause irritation, redness, or inflammation. It’s a gentler option for delicate areas like the bikini line.

  4. No Risk of Burns: Sugar wax is applied at room temperature or slightly warmed, eliminating the risk of burns that can occur with hot wax.

  5. Exfoliates the Skin: The sugar paste helps to exfoliate the skin, removing dead skin cells along with the hair, leaving the skin smoother and softer.

  6. Reduces Ingrown Hairs: Since sugar waxing removes hair in the direction of growth, it is less likely to cause ingrown hairs compared to traditional waxing, which often removes hair against the grain.

  7. Long-Lasting Results: Like traditional waxing, sugar waxing removes hair from the root, resulting in smoother skin for up to 3-6 weeks, depending on individual hair growth cycles.

  8. Water-Soluble and Easy Cleanup: Sugar wax is water-soluble, meaning it can be easily cleaned off the skin with just warm water. There’s no need for special post-waxing oils or solvents to remove sticky residue.

  9. Can Be Used on Any Body Part: Sugar waxing is versatile and can be used on various parts of the body, including the face, legs, arms, underarms, and bikini area.

  10. Slows Hair Regrowth: With consistent sugar waxing, hair regrowth can become finer and sparser over time, making future waxing sessions easier and less frequent.

The Sensation: Smooth vs. Hairy

Let me take a moment to explain the difference between how sex feels when you have hair versus a sugar-waxed vagina. With hair, there’s a natural friction that, while not necessarily unpleasant, can sometimes make penetration feel a bit rougher or less fluid. There’s also the fact that hair can trap heat and moisture, which might lead to a different sensation during sex – one that’s more muted and less intense.

With a sugar wax, it’s an entirely different experience. The indescribable smoothness of your skin makes everything more sensitive. You get wet easier, you glide easier, and most of all, my goodness, does it make him harder. Without the barrier of hair, you will feel every inch of him more distinctly, and the absence of friction makes the experience incredibly intense. He will slide in effortlessly, and each thrust will be smoother and deeper than you’ve ever felt. The silkiness of your skin against him will make him more aroused than you’ve ever seen or felt him. 

When you reveal your sugar wax, let him touch you and taste you before you make love. When you finally do, I recommend positions that you enjoy most so that you can feel the difference, and then transition to positions that give him a delightful view of your vagina, like reverse cowgirl. 

The Big Reveal

Later that afternoon, he was lounging in the living room on the big sofa beneath the open window. A gentle breeze drifted in from the ocean in the distance, and the sun’s golden glow warmed the pink and red geraniums on the windowsill.

Fresh from a shower, I walked in, wrapped in a plush towel that barely covered my cheeks. “I’m making a Cucumber Mint Cooler. Want one?” I asked. He muttered in acknowledgment without looking up, engrossed in his book. I strolled over to the bar cart and began muddling the mint, cucumber, and lime.

As I worked, I let my towel slip to the floor, casually exposing my bare backside. Subtle, I know. A minute passed, and still no reaction. I peeked over my shoulder – he was still absorbed in his book. Men and their one-track minds.

I "accidentally" knocked the steel shaker off the cart. It fell with a loud clang and rolled across the floor. That got his attention. He finally looked up. I made no sign of noticing as I bent down to retrieve the shaker, giving him an unmissable flash. “Oops,” I said, straightening up and continuing to mix the gin and soda water with a playful shake of my hips.

I poured the drink into a tall glass and turned around. He was staring at me, mouth agape, his book now forgotten on the floor. “What?” I asked innocently. “Did you…get waxed?” he finally asked, eyes wide.

I smiled and took a slow sip. “Want a taste?” He nodded, eyes locked on me. I sauntered over and offered him the glass. He set it aside and reached for me, but I stopped him with a gentle touch. His eyes, full of anticipation, searched mine. Slowly, I guided his hand between my legs. His fingers brushed my soft, freshly waxed skin, and he let out a quiet, awestruck breath. “That’s… the smoothest thing I’ve ever felt. How did you…” I placed a finger on his lips, silencing him with a smile.

I playfully pushed him onto the large sofa. Normally, depending on who is more aroused, one of us will give the other oral as foreplay. But this was a special occasion. I knew he was desperate to taste me in a way he hadn’t before, and just knowing that made me ridiculously horny.

My heart raced with anticipation as I positioned myself above him in the 69 position. As my thighs gently came to rest on either side of his head, I paused for a moment, savoring the sensation of his hard, familiar erection pressing against my breasts.

Before I took him into my mouth, I felt his breath on my freshly sugar-waxed skin – a sensation that sent a shiver down my spine. He started with the lightest, most teasing kisses along my pussy, his lips barely grazing me with a ticklish touch. I moaned softly, the sound vibrating in the back of my throat as I let my tongue glide slowly along the length of his shaft, tasting his salty skin before I finally took him fully into my mouth. 

The contrast between the gentle, playful kisses he was placing on my labia and the firm, deliberate strokes of my tongue along his erection created a heady mixture of pleasure that was almost overwhelming. I could feel him responding to every flick of my tongue, every gentle suck as I worked my way down his shaft, savoring the way he swelled and pulsed against my lips. His licks grew more insistent, more desperate, as his mouth found my sweet spot and began to tease me in earnest with the perfect combination of pressure and rhythm.

As I swallowed him whole, his hips bucked beneath me, a groan escaping his lips as he buried his face deeper between my cheeks. His hands gripped my hips tightly, holding me in place as his tongue worked its magic. One of the great things about marriage is that your husband becomes an expert in your anatomy – it’s like having Google Maps implanted in his brain when it comes to finding your G-spot.

I matched his rhythm with my own, my mouth moving up and down his shaft with increasing intensity, my tongue swirling around the tip before plunging back down to take him all the way in. The sounds of our shared pleasure filled the room as we pushed each other closer and closer to the edge. His grip on my hips tightened even more, urging me down further, pulling me closer, his need for me as fierce as mine for him.

And then it happened – his tongue hit my G-spot, and a deep, guttural moan escaped me, muffled by my full mouth. My body convulsed, thighs trembling against his head. In that moment, I wasn’t just his wife and lover – I was his world, and he was mine. The intensity of my orgasm propelled his excitement. His hips bucked harder, his erection throbbing in my mouth. Now that he was drenched, I came up for air and straddled him in reverse cowgirl. I lowered myself inch by inch as the smoothness of my skin made him grow harder. His hands gripped my cheeks as I began to ride him with determination. Each movement felt fluid and effortless, the frictionless glide adding to the intensity. He tried to speak, but he was delirious. All he could mutter were short words of disbelief. I felt powerful knowing how weak he was in my sexual possession.

I leaned forward onto the sofa with my arms stretched overhead, arched my back, and raised my bum in the air, causing him to slip out. I invited him inside me coyly. He got to his knees and entered me from behind. The angle, combined with the slickness of my skin, made every thrust incredibly smooth. I started squealing in delight, completely out of control but surrendering to the sensation overtaking my body. The sound of our skin slapping together and the feel of his hands gripping my hips was all so primal. Unable to hold back any longer, I buried my face in the pillow and screamed

Embrace the Smoothness

Yes, it really was the most mind-blowing sex of my life. No crazy positions, no herculean endurance, no rose-pedaled room at the Four Seasons (although I’ll happily take those). It was because of the smoothness. I’ve been shaved, waxed, and sugar waxed – trust me, the others don’t compare. The pain is temporary, but the benefits are lasting. It’s not just about the silky skin – though that alone is worth it – but about the confidence and heightened pleasure that comes with it. It’s incredibly empowering to feel so connected to your own body, so confident in your own skin. And that confidence? It translates into incredible sex that will leave you and your husband breathless.