Man On X Complains About Postpartum Wife Ignoring Him Then Gets Exposed For Secret Gay Affairs
A man who complained about his postpartum wife neglecting him was reportedly exposed for having a secret swinger account where he was looking for men.
Recently, @CartoonsHateHer, the author of Will There Be Free Food?, sparked a conversation on X when she wrote, “Having been on lots of mom groups during the postpartum period, a high and unfortunate percentage of these divorces are about male infidelity.”
It wasn’t long before a man named Scott Tyler (@scottjtyler89) chimed in. His comment was horrendous. "My first is 8 weeks old. I can see why men cheat at this time," he wrote. "My wife completely ignored my existence for the first few weeks, and we had to have arguments to get her [to] even acknowledge me, not to mention be intimate. That's the biggest challenge. Baby is easy."
The backlash was immediate and intense. Understandably, people couldn’t believe this man’s first instinct during his wife’s most vulnerable time – caring for their newborn and recovering from giving birth – was to complain about not getting laid. While his wife was busy feeding and giving her energy to their baby, all Tyler could think about was “me, me, me.”
One commenter perfectly summed it up, writing, “‘Baby is easy’ for you BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT DOING ANY WORK. You are a self-centered, immature, worthless dead weight on your partner, and I hope she sees your tweet and divorces your *ss. She deserves better. Your baby deserves better. You deserve… well, I can't say it here.”
After getting absolutely dragged on X, Tyler deleted his account entirely. I thought he had done so to escape the backlash, but according to user @xxclusionary, that wasn’t the real reason he disappeared from the platform. "This guy didn’t get 'bullied off the internet,’” @xxclusionary wrote. “He deleted his account because someone reverse searched his image and found out he’s trying to have sex with men." Oh.
Users found a profile with a similar-looking man on a website called The Adult Hub with the username @Larj91. The swinger profile described a 33-year-old gay man whose bio read, "Ready to meet, need to get some excitement back in my life guys." Both photos, the one on X and the one from the swinger account appeared to have been taken outdoors on a trail, raising suspicions that they were indeed the same person. And I’m not saying this is the same man at all – but they do have the same hairline, ears, and nose, and they appear to like taking photos on walks.
Once this theory reached X, the reactions were swift and unforgiving. A user named Liz wrote, "Even worse trying to shame his wife as a cover for just wanted to suck some 🍆!!" Another woman voiced a common concern, hoping his wife would “get tested,” implying that Tyler’s alleged sexcapades might have put her health at risk.
There’s obviously a lot to unpack here. If Tyler was truly struggling with his sexuality, that’s one thing, but instead of dealing with it maturely and honestly, he lashed out at his wife during one of the most difficult periods of her life. And he wasted her time and their marriage. He framed his complaints around her lack of affection, her exhaustion, and her supposed failure as a partner when, in reality, it seemed like he wasn’t around. Maybe she found out about his double life, or maybe she was too busy being a new mother to see what was going on behind her back. Maybe none of this is true at all, and Scott Tyler isn’t even his name, and the photo is AI-generated. Who knows what’s real or fake on the internet at this point?
Ultimately, Tyler’s attempt to deflect his own issues onto his wife backfired spectacularly.
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