Millie Bobby Brown Proves You’re Not Too Young To Get Married If You Find True Love

Millie Bobby Brown is making headlines this week, but for good reason. At just 20 years old, she’s proving that if you find true love, age doesn’t matter.  

Millie, who rose to fame as Eleven in Stranger Things, has been very open about her love story with Jake Bongiovi, 22. The couple shared their gorgeous wedding photos this week. While many social media users are busy questioning why someone so young would get married, Millie is clearly living her best life, and we can’t help but cheer her on.

Millie Follows Her Heart

Millie and Jake, who is the son of Jon Bon Jovi (yes, that Bon Jovi), have had their fair share of people doubting them because of their young ages. She was just 19 when they got engaged, and the world collectively gasped, like, "They’re way too young for this," “This isn’t going to end well at all,” or “I give it three years tops.” But Millie knew what she wanted, and so did her man. In an older interview, the Damsel star said, "I think so much of life is overthinking. The one thing that made clear sense to me was him. So I didn’t really have to do much thinking."

The comment sections on Millie's and Jake’s posts on Instagram show a fair share of people who also married young and had zero regrets. "I got married at 20 and my husband was 23 after dating for five months, we've lived in two countries, two different continents, have a beautiful baby with another on the way!" one user wrote on Instagram on a wedding photo of the couple.

Someone else added, "Got married at 22! Still married 28 years later!"

A lot of people today are hesitant to settle down because they’re caught up in this illusion that social media and dating apps have given them unlimited options. But the reality is, compatibility and real chemistry are rare. Sure, you might be able to swipe your way through a bunch of dates or hookups, but does he want you? Millie and Jake are living, breathing proof that you don’t have to keep searching. You don’t have to keep waiting just in case “someone else better” comes along.

Marrying Young Isn’t a Bad Thing

People are quick to warn against getting married young, and while those concerns can certainly be valid, there are also some major benefits to tying the knot early. For one, Millie doesn’t have to experience the heartbreaking situationships that other women in their 20s have to deal with. 

There’s something undeniably beautiful about growing with your person. When you’re young and building a life together, you learn more about each other with every step. You grow together, experience life together, and they truly become your other half. No one knows you better. Why would you want to be with anyone else? It’s like dating your best friend, and the closeness you share is unmatched by anyone else.

You Won’t Get “Tied Down”

Some people think getting married ties you down, but I completely disagree. Besides, what do people even mean by "tied down"? Does it mean you can’t have fun or have a wild night out? Relationships are about trust and boundaries, not someone controlling or restricting you. When you’re in a healthy relationship, living your life – whether it’s hanging out with your friends or having a girls’ night – shouldn't be an issue.

I’d argue that being in a committed relationship actually opens up a world of freedom. Having someone in your corner who’s genuinely supportive can make all the difference, especially when one partner needs time to figure things out. Imagine a scenario where one spouse takes a break from work, knowing their spouse has their back. That kind of emotional safety net allows for some serious soul-searching, like a career change that ignites their passion. When you look at it that way, marrying young doesn’t mean losing your freedom; rather, it sets the stage for both partners to flourish, explore, and discover who they really are.  

Emotional Stability 

Emotional stability is one of the often-overlooked benefits of marrying young. You know you have a partner who is there for you, so you don't have to stress over whether he’ll text back or if he’s genuinely interested.

While friends might be stuck in the frustrating "What are we?" phase, waiting for clarity as they’re strung along from one date to the next, that’s not a worry for couples who’ve chosen to settle down young. This kind of solid relationship allows young couples to focus on building a life together rather than dealing with the headaches of modern dating.

True Love Doesn’t Have a Timeline

Jake’s father, Jon Bon Jovi, has openly backed the couple's relationship. The rockstar himself has been with his high school sweetheart for over 40 years. His marriage clearly inspired his own sons to become husbands at a young age, and we love that.

As a father, he recognizes the importance of letting his son find happiness and navigate his path alongside Millie. He understands that love knows no age, and true connections can flourish at any stage of life. He said it best: “You don’t know what’s going to happen in life. If you find someone you love and who loves you back, then go for it.”

Millie Bobby Brown is proving that love doesn’t follow a set timeline. Should you grow first (mentally, physically, spiritually), get your life in order, and build a stable foundation before marriage? Absolutely. But does that mean the "wait until you’re older" rule applies to everyone? Not at all. When you know, you know.

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