OnlyFans Model Quits And Is Looking For "A High Value Man": "He Doesn't Want A Wife Who The World Has Access To"

Megan James, who goes by the username @thechaosofher on Instagram, shares the dark side of the sex work industry in a candid post. The model is among the top 13% of creators on OnlyFans, according to her page on the website.

The Melbourne model admits that she loved the "creativity" aspect of sex work "way more than the money" but that posting nudes "no longer aligns" with the life she desires, adding that pornography impacts the healthiest relationships. She recognizes that it desensitizes individuals to intimacy and fuels jealousy between couples. Many women's boyfriends also subscribed to James, and that "no longer sits right with her."

"The money was epic, let's be real," she admits, "we love money, money is not a dirty word, wanting money and loving money is not shameful. But I learned a few things in the last few months that have meant that this avenue of money flow no longer aligns with the vision I have for who I want to be, what I want out of life, what I want in a partner and how I feel about the effect this type of work is having on our socety, our relationships and the way the future generations will neurologically perceive pleasure..." James clarifies she's not shaming OnlyFans girls and that the sex work industry won't disappear any time soon.

James continues, "However, facts are facts, previously p*rn was a fantasy, a girl you would never meet or know or think of again – now, these are every day girls who don't necessarily have an understanding or respect for the SW industry & the women who've worked in it for years – they're girls like me who you can bump into at the beach, at a cafe, in your supermarket, they're influencers who you love and you follow... and even if you are the most open minded person – which I am – this is 100% affecting the healthiest of relationships."

Might I add that porn doesn't just ruin relationships between men and women. Porn star Riley Reid even admitted in the past that sex work has caused irreparable harm to her relationship with her family.

This is 100% affecting the healthiest of relationships.

"If you have a yes to p*rn agreement and then he subs to your fave influencer," James explains, "that is going to cause any female to feel some type of way. And after being the girl who many peoples boyfriends sub'd to... it no longer sits right with me."

"It interferes with your neurological pleasure pathways; the more hyper sexualised content you consume the less you will be aroused by regular intimacy," she adds. "I don't want that for my future daughter. I don't want to contribute to it." Say what you want about James – she's right. Besides the erectile dysfunction caused by frequent masturbation, science has shown that pornography increases dopamine in the brain the same way addictive substances do. And as we know, addiction has side effects such as depression, anxiety, and other symptoms.

Porn has also been shown to decrease the "gray area" in the prefrontal cortex, diminishing your capacity for logical decision-making and moral justifications.

James is now hoping for a "specific type of partner, a high value man," confessing that he wouldn't want a wife "who the world has access to."

"I also want a very specific type of partner, a high value man, and well he doesn't want a wife who the world has access to & to be truly honest, to be loved and valued so deeply that my partner doesn't want to share met all, is so much more valuable to me than money," the model concludes.

An increasing number of porn stars and OnlyFans models are coming forward these days to expose the detrimental effects of sex work and pornography. By sharing their personal experiences, these women shed light on the industry's darker side rather than the glamorized version social media often portrays. Unfortunately, even mainstream websites prioritize celebrating sex work over having honest conversations about its dangers and the significant emotional burden it places on the women involved. It's sad that adult film stars only fully comprehend the profound implications of sex work after leaving, especially the difficulties they face in dating and forming meaningful relationships.

Still, James' candidness raises the possibility of a collective awakening among women who will turn away from the exploitative – and damaging – nature of sex work.

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