6 Things You Need To Know About Studying Abroad, From A Girl Who Has Firsthand Experience

Sure, I'd visited other countries before, but the "study abroad" label carried a different weight. Was this experience worth the hefty price tag? Was it more than just ticking another destination off the bucket list? These questions had nagged at me for weeks leading up to decision day. 

Finally, with the deadline looming, I decided to go for it, to study abroad. Weeks later, Singapore wasn't just a foreign city on a map anymore; it became my “home away from home.” 

Now, back in my familiar surroundings, I see the world with a fresh perspective. The fear of the unknown has dissipated, replaced by a newfound confidence in my ability to navigate unfamiliar terrain, both literally and metaphorically. 

But what about you? As you ponder your own study abroad adventure, what should you consider and prepare? Let's dive into the realities, the challenges, and ultimately, the rewards of studying abroad.

Go Somewhere Totally Unfamiliar

This first one perhaps seems a bit counterintuitive. If I am moving for several months to a foreign location, why would I not pick a more familiar place?

One of the advantages of studying abroad is the built-in support system. You have your home university, the host institution, and a network of fellow international students. This is not a support system you would get if you were traveling on a vacation, so it may be a chance to take a risk and go somewhere different or outside your comfort zone with the knowledge that you’re not going into it alone. 

When I first decided to study abroad, I chose a program in France. I hoped to hone my French speaking skills; plus, I had been there before and felt comfortable picking up and moving there for a few months. 

But when the program was canceled just two months before I was supposed to leave, I was forced with a decision: forfeit the chance to study abroad or pick a new location from the “leftover” list. Basically, all the popular programs in countries like the U.K. and Spain were full, so my choices were limited to programs that still had space: Morocco, Norway, Thailand, Denmark, and Singapore. At that time, none of these countries had ever hit my radar. I felt left without much of a choice. Singapore ultimately won, primarily due to its thriving international scene in my desired career field, so an internship possibility seemed promising.

While it wasn't my initial choice, choosing the seemingly "unfamiliar" Singapore turned out to be the best decision. 

Pick Your “Why”

Studying abroad isn't just about ticking destinations off a travel list. It's a chance to immerse yourself in a foreign place and have new experiences, all while being supported by your school community. It could open doors to a world of opportunities that would not be open to you in your home country. 

What is your reason for wanting to study abroad? Do you see yourself honing your language skills in France, pushing your comfort zone by researching in the Amazon, or immersing yourself in the rich art history of Italy? Maybe you want an internship in Tokyo's tech hub or dream of volunteering in a rural Kenyan village.

Once you clarify your "why," selecting a location becomes a strategic step. If professional development is your goal, research programs with internship opportunities that are aligned with your field. Craving adventure? Explore programs offering field research, outdoor excursions, or immersive cultural experiences. Remember, the "best" location is the one that complements your unique aspirations.

While fluency in French was my motivator, fate had other plans. When my program was canceled, I researched and discovered the opportunities Singapore offered in my desired career field. This unexpected shift led to an internship that shaped my professional path.

Consider the Hidden Costs

While program fees often grab the spotlight when budgeting, remember studying abroad involves additional costs that significantly impact your budget. Let's explore some key areas:

Visas: Brace yourself for the visa hurdle! Different countries have varying requirements, translating to diverse costs. A friend, who had studied abroad in France before my program was canceled, shared that she spent upwards of $1,000 to obtain just her documents for her student visa, including a plane ticket to the French Consulate in Chicago to obtain specific forms there and an official translator to sign-off that she filled the form out correctly in French. Conversely, my Singapore student visa only required a small fee and, thankfully, no visit to their closest U.S. consulate.

Research your chosen country's visa requirements early and factor in potential embassy visits, translations, and fees. Plan accordingly to avoid budget surprises.

Living Expenses: Accommodation, food, transportation – these everyday costs vary greatly by location. Do your research! Analyze average apartment rentals, grocery prices, and public transport fares to get a realistic picture. Your lifestyle choices will impact this significantly, so factor in your desired level of comfort, eating habits, and travel plans.

Travel & Exploration: Studying abroad is a chance to discover your host country and beyond! Allocate funds for weekend trips, regional excursions, or even exploring neighboring countries. This enhances your experience and creates unforgettable memories.

My Advice: Set a realistic budget that caters to your program fees, visa costs, living expenses, and travel aspirations. Remember, unexpected expenses might arise, so consider having a buffer fund for peace of mind.

Make Friends with Local Students

Connecting with fellow international students is undoubtedly rewarding during your study abroad journey. Yet, limiting yourself to that bubble could leave you missing a crucial experience: friendship with locals.

I know, I've been there. Shared experiences and cultural similarities make international friends valuable. But my most cherished memories in Singapore stem from my local friends. They introduced me to hidden gems – off-the-beaten-path restaurants, unseen corners of the city, and even the warmth of their homes.

One of my favorite memories from my time in Singapore was being invited to my friend's home for Chinese New Year. At the end of the meal, my friend brought out this large platter layered with raw fish and a rainbow of vegetables. He handed me a pair of chopsticks, motioning me to get ready. Eight of us encircled the large dish, called Lo Hei, or prosperity salad. My friend counted down, “Three… Two… One…” Suddenly, we were throwing the salad in the air with our chopsticks, yelling “Lo Hei,” meaning prosperity. By the time we stopped, I was covered in carrot shards and peanut chunks, and despite my dirtied shoes and shirt, I laughed, and so did all of my new friends. We all cheered for prosperity in the New Year, and I secretly cheered for my new friends and new experiences. 

Pack Smart

Packing for an extended study abroad feels daunting. How can I possibly fit my next 100 outfits into my one tiny suitcase? I promise it is possible! Here is how to pack light and still be ready for anything.

Forget every occasion: While packing one outfit for each potential scenario might seem tempting, it's a recipe for an overflowing suitcase and limited breathing room for souvenirs or any shopping you may do while there.

Invest in a capsule wardrobe: Think versatile neutrals and mix-and-match. Pack a few high-quality staples like comfortable jeans, a skirt, a couple of tops, and a versatile jacket. These can be endlessly combined to create an array of daytime, evening, and travel-ready looks.

Accessorize for flair: Invest in a few statement scarves, belts, or jewelry that can transform your basic outfits into unique, personalized looks. Remember, accessories pack light but add major impact.

Weather-proof your wardrobe: Research the climate of your destination, but remember, weather can be unpredictable. Pack layers you can easily add or remove, and don't forget essentials like rain gear and comfortable shoes for exploring.

Don’t sweat the small stuff: When traveling for an extended period, I don’t pack things that can be easily purchased when I land. Toiletries like toothpaste, razors, lotion, and shampoo are readily available almost anywhere in the world. Save space and buy them when you get there. 

Budget for Weekend Trips 

Studying abroad isn't just about your host city; it's a gateway to exploring an entire region at a fraction of the cost compared to traveling from home. Imagine flying to Bangkok for a weekend adventure for $400 instead of spending $3,000+ and enduring a 23-hour journey from the U.S.

My memory of Bangkok still sparks joy: the vibrant street food, the beautiful temples, the bustling markets – experiences I wouldn't have had if I hadn't budgeted for the experience and embraced the regional exploration opportunity.

The Takeaway 

I remember sitting on the plane on my way back to the U.S., watching the cargo ships in the port of Singapore fade beneath the clouds. I couldn’t help but reflect on my last few months there. I was not the same person who watched those same cargo ships come into view when I landed just a few months prior, from someone who thought that it was so silly to say, “studying abroad changed my life,” to being the person who writes an article about it. 

Studying abroad might have seemed like a leap of faith, but it was the best decision I could have made during my college years. It pushed me outside my comfort zone, broadened my perspective, and ignited a passion for travel that continues today. If you're considering taking the plunge, I urge you to do it. Embrace the unfamiliar and step outside your comfort zone. The memories you create and the lessons you learn will stay with you for life.

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