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We Had Sex In A Car With Strangers Zooming By And It Was The Most Thrilling Quickie Of My Life

In this guide, I'll give you practical tips based on my experiences for having safe, private, and thrilling car sex. Because I’ve been there – cramped back seats, fogged-up windows, and accidentally honking the horn. So buckle up, we’re going for a ride!

By Ivy Lipton5 min read
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We were on our honeymoon in Hawaii, road-tripping along the famous Road to Hana. The drive is breathtaking but a bit risky with its narrow, one-lane roads. After stopping for coconut snow cones, we wound through the lush jungle with towering trees overhead.

*18+ Disclaimer: This article contains explicit adult content and is intended for educational purposes for married women only. Reader discretion is advised.

Since our destination was a famous lagoon, I was in a tiny string bikini with a sarong covering my bottoms. Hubby was shirtless, aviators on, and the humidity had his skin glistening. I was on edge the whole drive because he’d teased me at the start, telling me he was going to fuck me somewhere along the way, but I didn’t know when.

Suddenly, he hit the hazard lights and pulled over. My heart instantly raced – I knew exactly what was coming. By the time the Jeep came to a stop, I was already wet. Cars passed every few seconds, and even though we had a hard top, the rolled-up windows were untinted, leaving us just exposed enough. He yanked the lever on my seat and pushed it all the way back. I untied my sarong as he climbed over to my side, tugging the strings on my hips until my bikini bottoms came undone. As I frantically pulled his trunks down and gave him a few quick strokes, he had already slipped the bikini triangles off my nipples.

I spread my legs as wide as I could in the cramped space, pressing my bare foot hard against the dashboard. My hands were slipping on his sweaty back as the temperature in the car climbed rapidly. I had no chance. I lasted about 30 seconds before his strong thrusts sent me into overdrive. My pulse pounded in my ears, my vision blurred, and my body trembled as I came. I reached for the door, my fingers feeling around deliriously, and finally pushed the button that cracked the window just enough to let the fresh air pour in. I lay there in a fever dream for a good 20 minutes as my husband returned to the road with the windows back down, the wind blowing against my exposed breasts. It was the shortest yet hottest sex I had ever experienced. 

The next time the opportunity presents itself, please take my advice and do your husband in the car. There’s something deliciously naughty and thrilling about it that no other scenario can match. Maybe it’s the confined space, the thrill of getting caught, or maybe because that scene in Titanic implanted a deep desire to put our hand on the foggy glass. Whatever the reason, car sex can be an incredibly hot and memorable experience for you and your husband. But like any adventure, there are a few things to keep in mind to ensure your steamy session doesn’t get interrupted by awkward moments, or worse, legal issues. 

Timing Is Everything

Not only for logistical reasons, but also because you'll need the cover of night or an opportune moment when privacy is more likely. Having sex in broad daylight is risky, and the last thing you want is an unintentional audience (or worse, law enforcement). Make sure your car is parked legally – being adventurous doesn’t mean being reckless. Parking lots and secluded roads are your friends, but don’t stop somewhere that could raise suspicion. 

The Setup: What To Bring

While the car is the main prop, there are a few other things that can enhance your experience. If you’re planning to make car sex a regular or spontaneous part of your repertoire, consider keeping a few sex essentials in the car:

  • Wet wipes and tissues: A must for cleanup, especially if you’re “raw-dogging” it.

  • Lube: Car sex escalates fast, so you won’t always have time to naturally get super wet.

Dress for the Occasion

When it comes to car sex, dressing the part can make all the difference. The key is easy access. Everything should come off (or shift aside) fast. 

Wear a Skirt or Dress: A skirt or dress is your best friend. All you need to do is lift it up, and you’re ready to go. Plus, there’s something undeniably sexy about having your dress bunched up around your waist while he takes control. If you’re wearing a sundress, mini skirt, or even cocktail dress with a thong underneath, even better. He can pull your thong to the side and penetrate you without having to pull it off your legs. If you’re feeling bold and plan on seducing him in the car, consider wearing no panties!

No Shoes: Shoes are just going to get in the way. Kick them off before things start so you don’t end up fumbling around or making the space feel even more cramped. Besides, barefoot adds to that wild, uninhibited vibe.

Bring the Energy 

What makes car sex so hot is the urgency and the thrill of being (somewhat) exposed. Unlike sex in the comfort of your home or a hotel room, where slow foreplay and lingering touches build the moment, car sex is about moving fast and letting that adrenaline take over. Think open-mouth, fast breathing as you scramble into position, fumbling with his belt, shoving his pants down in one rushed motion. It's messy, it's desperate, and it’s intense. The goal is to make the entire experience feel as forbidden and naughty as possible. That risk of exposure? It creates a delicious sense of danger, one that your body transforms into raw, unfiltered excitement.

Best Positions for Car Sex

One of the challenges of car sex is the confined space, but it can also make things more exciting, especially if you use the doors, dashboard, or ceiling for leverage. 

The Backseat Straddle

This is the go-to for a hot, fast, and intimate ride. Your man sits back, legs wide, ready for you. As you straddle him, it’s all about control. And the best part? You’re face to face, giving you the chance to kiss him deeply or whisper every filthy thought running through your head. Quickly slip your dress or tank top off your shoulder so your boobs are free, and let him take full advantage. Whether he’s sucking on your nipples or watching them bounce right in front of his face, he’ll be in heaven. If you want to get a bit wilder, grip the seat for leverage and really ride him deep.

The Driver’s Seat Ride

This one is for those moments when you just can’t wait – literally. Slide the driver’s seat as far back as it goes, and climb on top. Grip the headrests for better leverage while your boobs are pressed up against him, or better yet, let them bounce free so he can kiss, lick, and suck on them while you grind. The steering wheel might be in the way, but that just means you’ll stay nice and close, which amps up the intensity. This position is perfect when you're both already on fire and need a quick, heated session that leaves you both breathless.

Missionary in the Backseat

Missionary doesn’t have to be boring – especially in the backseat. Lie along the seat, and as he moves on top of you, use the door or the window to brace your feet for some added leverage. The more support you have, the harder he can go, which means deeper penetration and stronger thrusts. You’ll feel every inch of him in the tight space, and the eye contact makes it even hotter. If you’re lucky enough to have an SUV with foldable back seats, that’s ideal for some extra room to get wild.

The Leg Lift

Recline the passenger seat all the way back, prop one leg on the dashboard, and get ready for him to take control from above. This position is perfect for those quick, deep thrusts that will have you coming quickly. Press your foot against the dashboard or door for extra leverage to let him go even deeper. Pull down your top enough so he can stare at your cleavage or let your boobs jiggle freely with each thrust. The view will make him crazy. 

Best Locations for Car Sex

Now that you’ve got the positions down, let’s talk about the best places to make car sex even more fun.

The Car Wash Quickie

This one is such a thrill! As soon as your car enters the wash, it’s go time. As water and bubbles cascade over the windows like a curtain, the loud machines obscure any sound, giving you all the cover you need for a wild, fast, and loud ride. But you better be quick! This one is a race to climax. Hopefully, by the time the rinse cycle is done and your car is getting blasted with air, you’ll be coming off the pleasure wave. 

In a Downpour

When a heavy rainstorm hits, don’t miss the chance to take advantage of this very wet opportunity! The sound of rain pounding on the roof creates a cozy, enclosed atmosphere, and the water running down the windows gives you privacy even in public, like a grocery store parking lot. Parking somewhere safe during a downpour sets the stage for a passionate, sensual session where the world outside is completely tuned out. Prepare for the windows to get extra foggy! 

At a Scenic Overlook

For a more romantic car sex experience, drive up to a secluded scenic overlook where you can gaze out at the stars or city lights while you have each other. There’s something incredibly intimate about being parked at a place with a beautiful view, where the vastness of nature contrasts with the closeness of your bodies inside the car. Of all the places for car sex, this is the spot where you can take your time for slow, passionate lovemaking. 

Drive-in Theaters

The drive-in is the perfect setting for a fun, secretive car sex experience. You’re parked in your own space, it’s dark, and everyone else is focused on the movie. Toss a blanket over the backseat for added privacy, and enjoy some slow, sensual fun while the movie plays. The thrill of having other people nearby adds to the excitement, but as long as you keep things discreet, you’ll have all the privacy you need.

The Roadside Retreat

There’s something undeniably exciting about pulling over for a quick roadside session, especially when you're on a long road trip. If you're driving through a quiet, deserted area, you can hop into the backseat for a spontaneous quickie. Lay out a blanket and go for it. Just make sure you're in a legal and safe spot before things heat up. Trust me – the freeway isn’t it! 

Whether it’s a quickie in a car wash, a sensual session during a rainstorm, or a romantic drive to a scenic overlook, car sex can spice up your marriage and create unforgettable memories. Just remember: safety and privacy are key. Choose your spots wisely, make sure you’re both comfortable, and don’t let the fear of getting caught overshadow the fun because that’s part of what makes it so exciting!