Why Hercules Is Still The Hero Women Crave In A World That Feminizes Men

Like many fans of the 1997 animated film, I was unenthused when I heard that plans to create a Hercules live-action remake had reportedly been shelved for a Hades version instead. While the switch may save Disney from attempting to ruin yet another wonderful classic, they also miss the opportunity to highlight the Greek hero and his ideal example of masculine virtue. 

In a hyper-progressive society that puts examples of weak and mediocre men on a pedestal and deems masculinity as “toxic”, Hercules remains a beacon of strength, gallantry, and honor that men can strive to be like and, more notably, women long to be with. 

Are you head over heels for the demigod yet? Here are a few reasons why I am. 

Just Look at Him! 

Hercules is the blueprint for swoon-worthy heroes. His broad shoulders, chiseled pecs, and massive biceps form his remarkable frame, epitomizing the rugged masculinity that’s been tragically missing in modern male icons. However, besides the muscles (though they call him “Hunkules” for a reason), his striking blue eyes and dashing smile convey a boyish charm that makes him approachable and warm. Overall, Hercules radiates a confident yet humble energy that is undeniably attractive, and while looks aren’t everything, you won’t hear me complain about the demigod’s handsome face and physical prowess.

He’s a Man of Honor 

The heroism of Hercules goes beyond his ability to battle monsters and rescue damsels, he’s a hero because of his commitment to virtue. From the start of the film, Hercules is driven by a desire to prove himself worthy, which he achieves not by brute strength alone, but through courage, determination, and sacrifice. 

When Hercules faces the Hydra, he is shocked by its enormous size and ferociousness as he prepares for a seemingly unbeatable feat. He is initially swallowed whole (literally) but continues to fight, attempting countless times to slay the creature only for it to regenerate and become stronger. But Hercules never gave up, despite having every odd against him. In a split-second decision, he triggers a rockslide to crush the Hydra at the potential cost of his own life. While today's men are encouraged to avoid risk and hardship, Hercules’s refusal to surrender in the face of danger is a testament to why valorous men are a necessity and an inspiration to us all. 

However, the most powerful example is when Hercules willingly descends to his demise to rescue the one he loves. After Megara’s soul is sent to the River Styx following her temporary death, Hercules dives in to save the femme fatale without hesitation after offering his life up for hers. His willingness to self-sacrifice for another marks him a true hero at the end of the film, as he remains devoted to his honor and love. Hercules reminds us of the beauty and strength found in selflessness, becoming a symbol of a man whose courage is rooted not just in physical might, but in the depth of his character.

He Remains Humble 

Despite achieving god-like strength and status, Hercules stays true to his sweet, respectful, and honest nature throughout the film. It would have been easy for him to turn into a conceited snob after ascending to the status of a celebrated hero. Yet, while he enjoys the adoration of the people of Thebes, Hercules doesn’t allow fame to define him or place him above others–making him that much more relatable and real.

Hercules's indifference to his celebrity during the popular “Zero to Hero” scene highlights the trappings that exist within superficial heroism. The merchandising, parades, and applause (while entertaining) are framed not as the pinnacle of his achievements but as a distraction from his higher purpose. Hercules’s focus remains on selflessly helping others and fulfilling his calling, never letting fame inflate his ego. This same humility shapes his relationship with Meg. Instead of trying to impress her with his strength and accolades, Hercules approaches Meg with vulnerability and sincerity. His genuine unassuming nature makes him an archetype of the “gentle giant” as he balances his strength with tenderness (but more on these two later). 

Where self-promotion, social media posturing, and pursuit of validation dominate our current culture, Hercules’s modest approach to heroism feels almost revolutionary and, certainly, timeless. His journey reminds us that true heroism isn’t found in seeking visibility or status but in a lifelong commitment to uplifting others. But don’t be mistaken, Hercules’s humility doesn’t make him “weak” or “less than” anyone else. Instead, it shows that he’s trustworthy and has a well-rounded personality–making him that much more irresistible! 

His Optimism Doesn’t Fade

From the moment he sings “I can go the distance”, Hercules’s vibrant and hopeful attitude is contagious as he embarks on his journey to becoming a true hero. But his optimism is made of more than just a cheerful smile; it is a form of resilience that believes challenges can be overcome and better days lie ahead. 

It is evident that Hercules had a loose hand on his god-like strength during his adolescent years, especially when he accidentally (but entirely) demolished his local marketplace after colliding with a pillar while catching a discus mid-air. Instead of remaining discouraged after the townspeople berated him for his unnatural qualities, the demigod set out on a mission to find the “far-off” place he often dreamed of where he could finally feel a sense of belonging. He’d walk every mile and go almost anywhere until he got there. After his father Zeus explained that he needed to prove himself a “true hero” on Earth before he could reunite with his parents on Mount Olympus, Hercules remained determined to achieve that goal–and that he did–despite all the trials and distractions that came his way. 

Hercules’s optimism is refreshing in a modern world stained by cynicism and apathy. While he admittedly showed moments of naivete during his quest, his lasting positive outlook reflects a strong character, emotional endurance, and a solution-oriented mindset. That sounds like a leader I’d like to follow!

He’s An Innocent Romantic

I can never control my giddiness when Hercules becomes smitten with Meg throughout the film. You’d think a man like him would act macho and arrogant while approaching a love interest considering his status and physique (remember Gaston?), but it was like Hercules was completely unaware of his own appeal. Instead, he stumbles over his words, is clumsy with his actions, and remains very awkward when first interacting with Meg. This made for a dynamic between the two that was adorable to watch. 

However, looking beyond his initial nervousness toward the femme fatale, Hercules’s unwavering chivalry stands out the most. After Meg claims to have weak ankles following their “hooky” date, Hercules picks her up and carries her to a garden bench. When Meg tries to entice him, he remains respectful, gently placing her leg down after she kicks it out in front of him and fixing her dress strap when it falls off her shoulder. Not only does it show that he’s polite but also has self-control during even the most tempting of situations. 

Even when Hercules finds out that Meg has been working with Hades the entire time, leaving him heartbroken and betrayed, he still chooses to sacrifice his life for hers by diving into the River Styx to save her soul in the end, revealing how faithful he is to her. 

Hercules serves as a reminder of what it means for a man to treat a woman with dignity in a world where chivalry and decency are hanging by a thread. More importantly, it shows that he also holds himself to a higher standard as a man with integrity and composure. 

Hercules shines as a true champion that both men and women can be inspired by. This film is a breath of fresh air amid the current entertainment landscape, which continues to lean into a distorted view of what real masculinity is.